女人是否能好命、在於是否挑對了男人

一位朋友，覺著老婆越來越懶惰自私，脾氣也一天比一天暴躁。
因此，他們天天吵架，吵到最後，朋友有了外遇，結果很簡單，停妻再娶。
他的前妻也很快就嫁了。
因為沒有孩子，他們各自進入新的婚姻都比較順利和適應。


這朋友在婚後，先前的第三者變成了後妻，溫情也開始消失殆盡。
他的家裡，又開始跟以前一樣了，動不動就吵聲不斷，後妻連家務也不做，還得朋友里里外外收拾。
朋友覺得自己命不夠好，找的老婆一個不如一個，為此天天唉聲嘆氣。


直到有一天，偶然機會，在一個飯局上碰到前妻的現任丈夫。
兩個男人原本無話，客套寒暄後，幾杯酒下肚，他終於忍不住，詢問人家的婚姻狀況。
那男人相貌普通， 說話卻擲地有聲：她是個很好的女人，特別溫柔體貼，家務全包，
還那麼疼我，對我的親戚朋友也是該豪爽就豪爽，該關心就關心。
這樣的女人，真是不多了。


朋友說，當時就覺得腦袋“嗡”地一下，心說，她有那麼好？
自己怎麼就沒發覺呢？
這些話，是他要面子糊弄我吧？


不久之後，………

巧的很，朋友在超市買東西，，遠遠看見前妻與她的現任丈夫。
朋友躲在一邊觀察良久，終於確認，
他們很幸福。那種幸福，刻在前妻的如花笑顏裡，藏在她身邊那個男人的溫情擁抱裡。


看來老婆是天使還是巫婆，全靠男人來塑造。

女人嫁給好男人，嫁的那刻，是下了決心跟男人好好過日子的。
她的選擇會讓她有得到也有失落，她可能因此而永遠錯過了更好更愛她的人，
而如果她做出這樣的奉獻後男人還不珍惜她，把她當老媽子使喚，那女人就真變成老媽子了。
所以，
要想讓老婆永遠是天使，就要先把她當天使來對待，即使她的長相和脾氣不像天使，
但你真把她當了天使，她就會給自己天使的性情，慢慢變成天使。


沒有天生的巫婆，只有後天的黃臉婆。
一個對女人不尊重的男人，一個不懂女人的男人，他看不見天使，只能碰上巫婆。


雖然在婚姻中，忍耐是一種美德，但如果有愛，就不存在忍耐，而只有寬容。

當你看著自己的女人橫豎不順眼時，她便也不在乎做巫婆了。
所以，如果想要一個天使女人，就先把她當天使供在心裡吧。
因為，這世界上每一個被叫做“老婆”的女人，都有成為天使的潛質。
你會發現，原來，你態度的轉變，可以造就出一個真正的天使。


這是創造，也是維護，比忍耐更容易做到。


其實老婆是什麼？
從前的路人.... 以前的朋友.... 現在的伴侶.... 生活的搭檔.... 感情的知音.... 一輩子的總結。

女人是一架鋼琴，遇到一位名家來彈，奏出來的是一支名曲；
如果一個普通人來彈，也許會奏出一條流行曲；要是碰上了不會彈的人，恐怕就不成歌了。
我認為婚姻的比喻大致如此。

做一個好女人真的好難，所謂好女人不單單是做個好母親！還應該是個好妻子！好兒媳！
正所謂一人難稱百人心，真是做到面面俱到......好難！
冥冥中一切自有安排，一切隨他去吧，珍惜擁有的，把握好今天，就夠了！
一個人的力量其實很有限，生活中有很多東西我們都不能改變，那就嚐著改變一下自己吧！
而生活就像一面鏡子，你笑了她也就笑了。

有些人因前世磨歷了很多災難，共渡了艱苦時光，所以在今生的茫茫人海隨便一指就能認出她的唯一；
而有些人因前世的互責排斥恩怨糾纏，所以今生必須接受尋覓的苦難，承受風雨的洗禮才能再度攜手。


兩個有情人實不容易。有些必鬚麵對流言蜚語，有些必鬚麵對眾叛親離，有些必鬚麵對世俗壓力，有些必鬚麵對生死抉擇……但不管怎麼樣兩個人的世界就是天堂，兩個人的生活就是願望。


太多的美好鏡頭其實是兩個人走到一起的理由。
難道面對生活的瑣事和不愉快的口角就能割捨曾經的愛戀和拋棄信誓旦旦的諾言？


兩個人真想相約黃昏看人生夕陽。
請切記：愛是責任，情是包容!

心事

最近的心不知发生了什么事。。
它，总是静不下来。
它，总是自寻烦恼。
它，总是被牵着走。
它，牵引着思考能力，让我变得负面女郎。

明明知道这能避免。 但善良的心在当下还是被灌输了。。


心啊心。。
你可否坚持。
苦了你，也苦了我贝！！

我的天使啊，你去了哪儿。。
快快回来我身边。

唤我快乐，唤我喜悦。
驱我烦恼，驱我忧愁。


抱持着信念~~~~~~~~

Talk Of Nick Vujicic

29.06.2010. This is the special day for me in this company.I been waiting for one month plus after announced he will be coming to the seminar. Counting down for the day. 4,3,2,1 ~~ he is coming..

Nick Vujicic, an inspiration and motivation speaker. who sharing his extraordinary life experiences that he had.who speech will reach to the deeper heart of the people around the world. Who give people the HOPE, LOVE and the way of finding meaningful in our own life.

He taught us the priciples to make ourself valuable, to live in beautiful world, do be thankful , do not complaining do react what you are and do goal what you have, do not limit ourselves, never give up, all the fear and obstacles will be overcome, Courage is keep trying, the moment you fail is the moment you stop trying. YES, all he said is what the people may faced, but someone just refuse to try and stop to do.So we couldn't stop to try.

While he was the child, he been teased and bullied by other. The hurt, the pain that he had is double than a normal person. Because of his determination and positive thinking. He change himself to be SOMEBODY.

Every of his word is so powerful and fantastic. Every single word is injected to our deepest heart. we are given the chance to hugging him after the seminar. The way he hugging you is full of love, powerful and sincerely than a normal person. he use his neck to hugging people. it much more tough than an ordinary person.But never lose to an ordinary person, is stronger .The way he said " I love you " is really mean from his heart. He let people felt that we are someone in the world. I felf his hug and touching from my deepest heart which will stay in my heart for a longer life.

Thanks for company provided the seminar. Thanks for Nick Vujicic the way of sharing and caring. And thanks god to let him come to the world to motivate and inspirate the people who need around the world.

TODAY" "TODAY" "TODAY".

Attitute is altitude !!!

友情。

喜欢跟你你们一起的感觉，

那种不顾仪态的笑，

那种不需动脑筋想话题，

那种想说就说，想骂就骂，

那种无忧无欲，不顾一切，

那种轻轻，小小的鼓励；但却常常发挥大大的作用，

那种彼此对彼此的信任，让我们的世界存有一道七彩的彩虹。

没有了友情，人生是灰暗的，是苍白的。

没有友情的人，是孤独寂寞的！

或许我们搬演了不同的色彩，为彼此上色。

虽然这幅画登不上画家村。但对我来说，它绝对与众不同。

友情也是流淌的韵律，不同的音符，创造出不同的曲目。

感谢老天赐与我们友情。。。

感谢你们陪旁在我身边，为我上色，为我谱曲。

送旧迎新。。

2010年到来咯！！
全世界的人采用不同的方法在庆祝。而我们呢？？
好困哦！！不行，不行。在我踏入梦乡前，得好好回味下我的2009年。
才从雯家回来。。开心快乐，和一帮好朋友们畅谈，说笑，虽然简单，但是幸福。不管我们有多久没见面，当大家聚在一起时，那种感觉又回来了。。
每一年，都有苦有乐。。或许这就是人生。。
懂得享受，懂得面对，懂得克服，懂得。。。
2009年我得到了很多，学习了很多。。
到英国留学，到欧洲旅行，学习到了不同的教学方式，不同的文化，不同的饮食习惯。
相对的我也失去了一些。
失去了至亲的大姨丈，没来得及跟你道别。但你将永在我们的心头。
我想这就是所谓的given and taken吧！！
一年又一年，时间过得真快。。
失去的不能挽回，唯有向前看。。
曾经的疏忽，糊涂，唯有提醒自己不能再犯。。
还没完成的，唯有提醒自己往前冲。
错过的，再努力的追回来。。。
呵呵呵呵~~
2009年，再见咯！！有空我会回味你的。
2010年，欢迎你！！记得别亏待我哦。今年会更好。加油。

冬至快乐2009

一年一度冬至又来领咯。。
前几年我都在外度过，今年终于可以在我自己的家度过咯。。
前几年的冬至我可是怎么过的呢？？让我来细细回想一番。
嗯~~去年（2008年）的冬至是跟我在KL的“家人”一起度过的哦！！
大家一起努力的买材料，跟阿瓜掏pandan叶，惊险一番。再回到家搓啊搓，最后再完成我们的作品。有方的，有圆的，有奇形怪状的。有花生的，还有巧克力的（我们独创的）。。大家吃得，玩得不亦乐乎。赞~
再想想。。2006 年的冬至也是特别的不同。。为什么呢？？因为我经历了百年大水灾，经过2天的受困后。寄人篱下，还有温馨的汤圆吃。。当然是不同感想啦。
2003 年的冬至是在外买现成的汤圆与我家的梦梦及依薇蔡一起享用的。。虽然过程简单，但任然让我回味。。
（剩下那几年，没提到的，大都是买现成的吧！！没什么印象）
果然在家靠父母，出外靠朋友。。这些回忆想起来都好怀念哦！！
屈指一算，我在外住了整整7年。。哇~~原来我也满独立的嘛。。
今年的冬至我家的汤圆超普通的。只因老哥得工作没回家，小妹在忙于考试，也没回家。所以老妈子说了，等大家读在时在来得分量够够的。所谓有福同享嘛！！虽然今天的汤圆普通了些，但吃进心里任然是甜滋滋的。等待那分量够够的。。哈哈
冬至代表的一家团圆。。
祝大家冬至快乐哦！！

唐僧的紧箍咒

哦！！拜托，我的头快裂开了。。

初尝头痛的感觉，逼得我不得有吞多两颗仙丹。

难道我上辈子是孙悟空不成，这辈子始终逃脱不了那“唐僧的紧箍咒”。。

哇！！头痛这玩儿可不好惹的咯！！它可会让你叫天天不灵，叫地地不应。（叫天，叫地~~~）

嘿~~我的猪八戒师弟，你又跑到哪儿鬼魂去了。。还不快马加鞭来搭救你师兄我。。

等我好了就要你好看。。哈哈~~

还有我的沙僧们，你们就这么忙哦！！看在你们忙工作上，师兄我就放过你们一马吧！！

啊啊啊~~~~ 今天可是什么天气。。是想怎样啦！！

艾可没再度大闹天宫，没三打白骨精了呗。。

求职的金牛

为什么我闲不下来呢？？

从英国回来2个月了。。也找了一个多月的工。。都没什么消息。唉~

朋友都说慢慢来啦！！找一份好的。。有些人都还没找呢。。可是现在找工可真不容易啊！！是因为全球经济的问题（我们是衰到咯），还是老板要求太高呢？？难道我要求太高，不会啊！！我要求很普通勒。。

很多人都妒忌我可以睡到迟迟，看连续剧，悠悠闲闲。。哈哈！！坦白说，这种日子偶尔出现在生活里或许能称为“忙里偷闲”。可每天都在经历，就不见得会珍惜咯！！（有天我会想念的）

毕业了找不到一份工仿佛是一艘漂游在大海里的船，失去了目标。。飘啊飘。。（飘到脑袋空空）

我天生劳碌命勒。。一闲下来就生病。。看啦~~果然！！

加油咯。。

金牛女与巨蟹女的约会

可怜的巨蟹女昨晚既然工作到11点才回家。

昏昏欲睡时接到她打来的电话，偶有义气的咯！！从被窝里爬了起来。

因为偶知道，巨蟹女一定有事要分享地。

果然不出偶所料，巨蟹女“投诉”起政府修改了她的必经之路。所以她要“念”，“念”，“念”。（哈哈）

由于偶现在是朋友群中最得空的人，巨蟹女找偶早上陪她去找“专业人士”查看她的“牙”

偶：“OK OK 咯！！明天要来时打个电话哦！”（回头continue睡，不然睡神不理我了）

ring~~ring~~ring闹钟响了！！哇~~9点15分，睡不醒。

随便梳洗下，喝了杯牛奶，吞了2颗“仙丹”。。等等等~~

电话响。。巨蟹女？？就是她,要不也没人会这么早来电。

"o(︶︿︶)o 唉，那个医生今天没有来勒？

啊？？？酱怎样？？

（谈话内容就不说啦！！）总结就是最后没去了。。

不过我们也没闲下来哦！！

金牛女与巨蟹女的约会就从11am开始。

首先偶的充当秘书的责任，陪我老板娘奔波劳碌的往银行跑。。

效率果然高咯！！45分钟搞定。

可以开始享受relax咯！！

（我是每天都relax啦！巨蟹女不同嘛！！不过也谢咯！谢什么，你知我知啦））

去那里勒？？去那里勒？？老地方？对对对！！sutera mall

为什么勒？因为那里有好吃的面包，好喝的咖啡。（我们的最爱）

废话不多说，看图理解比较快。。哈哈~

圣诞将近。。处处都是圣诞节的气氛。。我的巨蟹女喃着要拍照。哈哈

去Sutera mall 的最终目的。。到Toast Box喝茶。相比较新加坡的我个人还是较喜欢这的。

多余摄取卡路里的机会，天不作美，在我们要离开时下超大雨的。所以。。。。。（o(∩_∩)o ）

金牛女与巨蟹女的约会延续到晚上，不过加了其它的星座女，开开心心聊翻天。。。。。

病了。。

凌晨4点30分，出乎意料的早起。。

喉咙不舒服，嘴张疮，发冷。。总结就是“我病了”

吃了药。。。躺着。。翻向左，再翻下右。。努力的寻找那正确的姿势。。

最后。。。。。宣告失败。

算了吧，来到电脑前总会有我要做的事，查了查邮件,上了面子书。

游览了一位英国学姐的部落格。 才想起我好久好久没来留下字迹咯！！（证明我没太闲！）。lol

在英国是总想这要博下这咯。。可就这么都没行动。。懒咯！！

或许这几天我能趁着找工作的空当来个分享。。哈哈！！保佑懒虫没缠上我。

哦~~老妈子也醒了。。

由于上星期去和yc去了趟新加坡，我们两都病了。老妈子担心H1N1。（嘛拜托！！真这么容易吗？）安啦！安啦！！久久病一下是我的“常”向。没事的。

明天或许还得跟ZHABORS们见面呢！！哈哈~~现在的我最忙就在周末了。

真希望赶快结束没有目标的日子。。

老天保佑。。

（要去吃早餐，吃药咯。。嗯~~先踏出门口呼吸下早晨的空气，它们应该满想念我的）哈

my birthday celebration 2009

Year after Year... reach for my birthday again....
To be more details, please visit to http://zha-bor.blogspot.com/2009/05/gongs-birthday-celebration.html ...
thanks friends.

my life in may

My life from May are boring + excited + worried.. Boring is because i do nothing at home everyday, only sometime go shopping with my mum and wait for weekend coming, because zhabors will meet. Excited is because i will be UK next month for my degree holder, then i can start my working life.. Worried is because the KNS H1N1 disease suddenly bomb out.. it mess up my plan.. and i really kiasi ones lor.. start to ate some supplement to enhance my body..haha~~ because i want come back to visit my god-daughter jaymie mah...

Jaymie is my brokenback-alice new born daughter.. she now still inside her mummy tummy.. Doctor say she have a big head.. so i think she is a clever girl in the future.. so we better to keep clever..life long learning ah. if no, communication problem will occur lor.. haha~~ you all should know lar.. children now very clever de.. later we kenal fool by them.. haha.. i just chat with my brokenback, i said that next time don't know will she snatch my food.. imagine this is a funny situation lor.. so excited to see her soon. but seem i need to abroad.. i have to wait till September just can see her.. " Little Jaymie, Be Good and obedient oh, don't bully your mummy oh" . If she really can read my word, she no only clever is genius lor..

Waiting and waiting.. start to purchase something for bring abroad... and praying the H1N1 disappear soon .....

Sementer break ~~

What a boring sem break for me, can't imagine that 3 month without doing the meaningful activities but stay at home waiting for U.K summer education. So that i very hardworking to find the job. Because of the place restriction, i only can find the job in kulai. But i don't know whether is the economies recession problem o what, i still haven't find the job in one month. And every weekday, i only stay at home for daydreaming, chatted with my best mum and sometime went shopping with her, and come to visit my favourite grandparent too.But luckly, i still have my "zha bors sister group", where we can meet on weekend. Even no every weekend(cause they still need to accompany lover mah), but that would able to clean the dust on my body and return the energy..haha

My result was released, friends & family with the bless from you all, i passed my last final exam in KTAR, so that i able to continue my studies at U.K in June together with yc and my lovely coursemate. Thanks oh.. Many people asked me " Are you excited can go to U.K?". Haha~~ sorry that i only can tell you " no yet, because maybe still need to wait 2 more month, and i even no yet get the flight ticket, so leave the excited aft 2 month bah"

U.K. I will go for you on 4/6 oh..

Exam is so tiring ...

I finish my 3 of 2 paper in final exam alrady lor.. still leave 1 at 6/2, which mean i still have 25 hours to prepare it.. but minus the sleeping hour, lunch and dinner time taken, bath time..opps.. that is no much time for me ler... Have start to memory all those theories, otherwise i will heartattack again..haiz.. last minutes hug the Buddha leg are like this ones.

Yesterday i break my record where untill 5am in the morning i just memories 4 of 8 chapter ler.. Even trying to sleep a while to charge my body battery also cannot ( nervous till heart bumping fast, cant sleep). So i had half cup Neslo and few pack of biscuit to fill in my stomach and continue. After had the Neslo.. feeling no well. like a lot of "gas" in my stomach.. and keep feel want vomit.. haiz.. i sure that my stomach is no healthy as before since no take care well by me.. so sad.. But due to time constraint, i just continue to memories the important point and tolerance to overcome the sickening.

But that was no well as i thought. i feel the vomit feel getting closer. i just start up and walk slowly to take a deep breath where i thought might more better afterward. With a few cough, i run to kitchen, can you all imagine what was happened?? ya~~ i vomit ler ..Luckly YC was there that time, he hit lightly on my back when i vomit, it let me feel better on it. Otherwise i sure will feel pity for myself.. By the way, the sound make by me was scare my roomate where inside the toilet (so sorry oh~~ i also don't want di) and cause my other roomate vomit also (cause she go to see my vomit)..haha ...paisei paisei.

This is the most terrible time that i had in exam week. Without sleep, with only finish least chapter that i expected to finish more. oh~~ Exam are so tough and tiring student ler.. If student study no need to take exam are so nice ah (imagining~~) .

To desire more better life during the exam week.. study early and prepare early lo.. its too late for me..my study life gonna end soon..

Happy Chinese New Year 2009

I at my grandpa house right now. I have been here 2 days already. Is a normal Chinese new year for me, greeting with gong gong, po po and all those closely relative or the relative that long time no see. The only difference of this Chinese new year is all of the children (my gong gong grandson/granddaughters) was grown up and have own activities. So that we are couldn’t play as last time. By the way, both my cousin married and one even have two cute children lor, so they can’t stay over night like last time chit chat with us. All have own activities.

The nothing different is my gong gong still busy to chit chat with their relative (which some I don't know should call what), and my po po, mum and da yi are busier in the kitchen to prepare the delicious food to us. I also eat non-stop. Can’t imagine how many kg I will gain this New Year.

My gong gong was sick, but he looks healthier. Will the doctor make the wrong report?? I hope the doctor do so. He still can sharing the story with us, still can chatting with the relative non-stop and walk as usual. How can he sick ler?? Gong gong is the nicely and friendly people in my life and this world. hehe.. He should deserve the good is it???

My Chinese new year wishes for cow year is gong gong healthy and 长命百岁。。。

公公。。。

谁可以教我怎么办？
因为阿公吃了一种药。。。
他会让阿公的脸变红的。。。
刚才在吃饭的时候。。。
看到阿公一直看住镜子。。。
好像也有一直摸他的那里瘤。。。
他的表情。。。很难看啊！！！
看了很心酸啊！！！
现在他又坐在他每次坐的地方。。。
在做手部运动。。。
上次去台湾的时候。。。
我买了健康戒指给全家人。。。
阿公戴了。。。
他竟然和表姐说什么戴了就可以健健康康的走。。。
真的很想打他叻~~~(i would like to beat him too)

我害怕。。。
我怕阿公会想多多。。。
更怕他乱乱想。。。
真的怕啊。。。
那种恐惧。。。

我昨天也巴了自己几巴。。。(Me too)
因为我也一直乱乱想东西。。。
我不想想这种东西啊！！！
谁可以救我啊？

我不想每天都看到阿公那种神情啊！！！

老天啊！！！
您至少也让他健健康康的啊！！！

以前。。。
礼拜天早上——补习天。。。
都是阿公叫我们起床。。。
带我们去饮茶然后带我们去补习。。
老天啊！！！
你至少让我可以驾着他一直驾的车。。。
带他去兜风、吃东西、看风景啊！！！

求求你啊！！！
保佑阿公！！！
希望阿公天天开心。。。
病魔彻彻底底的离开他。。。T_T

This is my cousin blog, i copy from there again.

Today i was finished my first paper of exam, Now all i want to go back hometown immediatery and go to side of my grandpa. Telling him the non-sense but "maybe" funny joke. He will never stingy entertain me with his laughing. Everytime i saw his smile and laugh then i will happy too.

Right now, i don't know what his situation. Yesterday i called back home. My mum told me if nothing happen, after 6 months go back to check again? how come need to wait till 6 month just have one check-up? Doctor told us, grandpa like this is consider better lor, passed from his last operation is 2 years ago, till now jst have a relapse. But this time are different ler, is a malignant tumor ler.. Mum told me we have to bless for gong gong, hope it won't spread to other part of body. If so, gong gong will feel suffer. I dun want to see him suffer. I don't want to see him have any painful. I want he happy. God, did you listen what i please from you?I use my year to year b'day wishes gong gong be healthy. Can i make it advance 1st??please...

Gong Gong, promise me!! Gambateh in life oh.. God Bless

阿公。。。我爱你！！！

今天。。。
我又哭了。。。
7.45pm回到家~~~
马上就问从新加坡看医生回来的阿公怎么样了？
他跟我说没事。。。
很好啊！！！
我就松了好大一口气~~~
心想那就好了~~~

可是后来在客厅吃饭看电视时。。。
阿妈跟弟弟说悄悄话~~~
我就问什么事~~~
他们就说。。。
阿公的颈项那粒硬块。。。
证明是恶性的肿瘤。。。
加上他老人家年纪这么大了。。。
医生说不能割了。。。

为什么要酱？
以前那两粒，两粒都可以是良性的。。。
为什么这次只是一粒。。。却不可以？？？
我不要啊！！！
我要阿公啊！！！
我要阿公看我进大学啊！！！
我要阿公能一直陪着我啊！！！T_T
我真得很难过啊！！！
我害怕~~~
真的害怕~~~

来过我家的人都知道~~~
我阿公是多么的好！！！
为什么酱好的人。。。
要得cancer？
为什么要酱对他？
为什么不能够让他健健康康的？
你们已经夺走他很多美好的时光、日子和功能了。。。
为什么还要酱？

我真的怕。。。
真的难过。。。
我不要酱的结局。。。

阿公！！！
我要你好好的~~~
我当初开始打blog是因为你。。。
所以你要撑下去啊！！！
我要你快快乐乐的！！！
我要你健健康康的！！！

阿公！！！
我爱你！！！
我真的很爱你！！！
老天。。。
求求你~~~
让奇迹出现！！！
保佑他好吗？
我先说声谢谢了！！！

Above is my cousin blog, i copy from there. i sad when read it, i cry when read it, i miss gong gong every moment. i love you gong gong, we all love you. So, promise me, live in healthy, live with happy. ok?? We need you to attend every important moment in our life. This just will complete. So god, please give my gong gong have a healthy life. He is what a kind man in this world. Please.. please let this miracle come true.. My 2009 wishes , my gong gong have a healthy body. please please please ...........and thanks.. please accept my request.。

Customer Right

Following to the previous blog, as a consumer we have to clearly understand about the customer right. And have to be smart, so not drop into the immoral seller trap. Below are something i share with everybody.

Legal Issue on Contract Law in Malaysia - Good for us to know
Do you notice that most of the time, the receipt / invoice you received from the merchant carries this exclusion clause or similarly worded statement: “Goods sold are not returnable” or “No refund once sold”.

Please remember that : “As long as your goods is purchased for home use and not for business (i.e. to be resold), the above exclusion clause is VOID.

That means, as long as the good is defective, regardless of what is worded, you CAN get back all your money spent . You do not have to accept a repair on the good or an exchange. You CAN ask for a refund. AND you are LEGALLY right and entitled to!

And most of the time the merchant will refuse to return you your money.
You can threaten the merchant with four words: “SEE YOU IN COURT!”

The court here refers to the Small Claims Tribunal.Any goods which is worth RM25,000 and below can apply to this Court.

However, you don’t have to tell them what court! All you have to pay is RM10 admin fee and the loser (the merchant) will have to refund you the money PLUS the admin fee!

I have seen that most educated people are cowed by such unfair wordings (which includes a few of my friends).
Pls try not to let the merchant fleece you the next time you have defective goods.

You can file this On the 16th floor of Putra Place (The Mall opposite Putra World Trade Centre) . The form cost RM5.00. The Tribunal will settle within 2 months period.

Tribunal Tuntutan Pengguna Malaysia,

Tingkat 16, Putra Place,

100, Jalan Putra,50622 KUALA LUMPUR

Tel: 03 - 40492300 / 40424181 Fax: 03 - 40424259

With more informarion, Kindly visit the website:

http://www.fomca.org.my/english/index.php

Play smart in the consumer side. don't get tricked by greedy sellers

Be Careful when purchase the Mobile Phone

Do you all know when u purchases a handphone in a shop what u have to do on the spot? That day, I was shopping at sg wang with my housemate and yc... And one of my roommates was bought a handphone Nokia 6120 classic with a guy where at G floor. Well~ they are having a promotion where the price at RM558.And my friend is looking for this model with white color. She asked “Do u have the white color ones”. The person told her they have it. When we request for have a look, the person told us they don’t have the right now. If we want it, they can get one for us. Ok! My friend is too kind, she directly order one set from the guy where I think she really wish to get one. During the time of around 3.3opm we were having our lunch at time square. The guy was called to my friend and told her the white color price are different where is RM 620/Set. After negotiate, they guy was discount RM10 for my friend and my friend also accepted his offer. It is deal.

It is around 5pm something; my friend is goes to take her handphone with my another friend. (I and yc were no around). And we continue shopping until 9pm. After we reach home, my friend she have a habit to play with her new technology item she bought.

Ahha~~This is why she realize the handphone are no actually what she want. The casing are loose and the color of the side are also is black color where is should be silver color. What the man do? Does all the white color already sold out so they just change the casing and state that this is white color. What the hell~ and we also find out that the box there are actually state that is black color and also the series number are different with what she bought. Because of this, she start calling for the person who sold this to her, but that was nobody to pick up. We suspect that have some problem behind. Even we drive to sg wang immediately, the shop also off. Due to there have no solutions again, the only way to do is report to the police for prevent the seller to refuse to payback.

In the next earlier morning, we went to the shop again. Have a fat man standing at the booth there; I have no sure who he is. But I really very unsatisfied on his manner, who is he? Come on!! Is only a fat disgusting guy with rubbish word in his mouth.. No $$ to buy a toothpaste?? If he is the boss there, I curse him for lose seriously in year 2009.blek~ but even I no curse him, he also wont get much customer since he have a bad service, bad manner and with the face when people seeing will think to punch him hardly. What he done for us, is he loud for my friend who is his customer and even blame us with loudly. Come on man. We just have a discussion. What for your voice so loud? You never know that customer is always right? You never know that I can sue you for customer association regarding your poor service. You will never ever know because you are much more stupid than a rubbish bug.

So guy. Be careful when you going to buy a handphone. Better check properly of the stuff you bought. Below are some tips:

1) Press *#06#, you can check the IMEI number where is the series number too. Check properly whether it match with the box and the sticker at the handphone.
2) Press *#0000#, you can check the some details of the phone. But this code only for Nokia buyer.

3) If the receipt the seller give to you does no include the series number and the colour of the phone you buy, request them to write on it. Everything are need the evidence.


( The receipt that have no series number and color) And sold in RM610, but the receipt write as RM 558. As a customer. dun careless,have to check properly.

(Have to be very know the brand and pattern of the phone you going to buy, beside of the cassing also have to check the side of the color also, some illegal seller may change your original cassing to non-original ones)

Balls of glutinous rice - 汤圆

Although this festival passed few week already , well~~ i feel i still need to update this blog where me and my housemate contribute well on it... ;-)....

who have interest to make it during the coming year..can learn from here oh..it is really delicious and teach with FOC oh..












wish all my friend happy and life with healthy with our delicious TangYuan..

Pikom Pc Fair

Finally, Pikom PC fair was finish..And my job was done..huuhuu~~ by standing 3 days selling the multi-function digital camera, video-camcorder. The repeating word i was explain to customer really can caused me uttered in one's sleep...^_^.My leg also mostly broken and because all the way was standing, cause me backache too..But compare with last time, this time is considered better already. haiz~~want earn $$, have to give ones..

Beside out booth, even have people perform for us, but in the end.They stopped to doing so by the organizer..So I have no song to listen anymore... Opps, during the pc fair, I was done one survey form from a girl. The Survey Form are related to waahhh , where she told me is a new website by her boss and currently can compare the airline ticket through there. In the future, teenager can search more what they want over there. Quite interested neh.

Photo Creation

I found out one fun and interest website from layu there which i wish to get long time ago..It is a place where people can edit thier pic to be more funny, creative, attractive and interest than the origin ones.

Below are some picture edited by me.. and i very enjoy on it :

NiCe AnD bEaUtIfUL sEsSion :

FuNnY SeSsIoN : Uncontrollable laughing when see belowing piture results come out.. Does You too ???

My Friends, can you all recognize who is this ??

Tips : this is me and one my super close fiend... guess it out ...^_^

Any people would like to have fun can visit photofunia , take your time and have a fun

My Horoscope -Taurus

金牛座幽默是金牛的天赋
与一般星座书上描写的金牛们相反，其实金牛座非常具有幽默感。他们天生就有搞笑的才能，善于制造轻松的氛围，不要再将牛牛们认为成是一群僵硬腐化的人,相反他们很可爱。还记得《满城尽带黄金甲》的发布会场上不断耍宝的金牛发哥吗？他的幽默感绝对令资深娱记也大跌眼镜人缘好不是随便说说的，金牛座有着宽厚的胸怀。

其实他们有着叛逆的灵魂
金牛基本上看起来都是乖孩子，仿佛脚踏实地，固执老实，但是，谁曾想到，其实他们的内心都有着一个小邪魔在作祟？他们虽然是一板一眼的生活，但是在他们的内心里却喜欢着调皮的恶作剧。不要金牛们想象的太沉闷，他们其实内心五彩斑斓，而且特别钟意制造出各种人生的小小乐趣。也正是这样叛逆的灵魂，让有些金牛让人吃惊。所以，一般的容貌姣好的乖乖女，或者一般人理想中的文静男，其实，都不属于金牛的鉴赏范围，他们总会奇异的喜欢些标新立异的人。这点在金牛男上表现的较为突出，也因此而衍生出不少瓶女和牛男的佳话吧。

思考是金牛的具象
在贪图享乐的外表下，金牛有一颗哲学家的心。他们看问题的方法与众不同，他们有着唯物主义的思考逻辑，不会轻易人云亦云，也正因为如此，他们让人觉得固执非常。
但是千万不要因为固执就否认金牛们的智慧，有马克思，列宁，康德……为证，金牛们完整的理性思维往往能建立严密体系，只是有时候他们太容易钻牛角尖！不过即使是钻牛角尖的牛牛也具有鲜明的个人特质，李敖就是这类金牛的代表：）

务实的人生不需要浪漫武装
跟牛牛生活是一件比较乏味的事情，如果你钟爱浪漫的仪式。
因为牛牛无论金钱或者生活，他们都踏着务实的步伐。他们不会轻易说我爱你，他们不会随便送花，他们甚至不记得你的生日，更别提情人节等什么形而上的各种纪念日，这让人大为光火。因为没有了形式的爱情，又怎么能证明是爱情呢？
但是，金牛们会告诉你，其实有时候真正的帮助其实好过鲜花香水，有时候挺身而出的担当其实胜过所有的甜言蜜语。所以金牛们的爱情，也许让人闷到感觉不出火花，但是，在贫乏的爱的表象下，却藏着他们深刻的滴水不漏而且日久弥坚的关怀。

享乐人生的信仰
金牛们懂得生活。他们虽然很执著，但是该放弃的时候，他们并没有太多犹豫。从利益出发考量的方式，让他们在现实生活中相当的如鱼得水，而懂得平衡自己的贪念，而追求物质的享受和一心的宁静，是金牛座中的极品。这样的金牛能够在逆境中坦然，在顺境中懂得顺应。他们有着预见性的智慧，使人生得到完整的规划。在适当的时候寻求闲适，所以金牛座很少有面临困境无法自拔的困兽，他们相当的懂得自我调节和生活。他们有着自己的节奏。

能够轻松生活的智者
金牛们在星座排行中表现一般，但是其实他们都很出色，金牛座的孩子往往是班干部，金牛座的爸爸妈妈都是模范爸妈，他们在生活中尽职尽责，富有责任感，虽然有时候稍嫌古板，但是正是他们撑起了所谓规矩的框架。
严肃生活认真思考却有能享有生活乐趣的金牛们其实非常可爱，当然，如果他们不那么市侩，那就更好了！

Does it accurate ??^_^copy from my cousin ..

ShiPei last sem in Ktar

woah~~i still leave one sememter at ktar, where the college i spend many years at..Last sementer result was out, while waiting for the results, the feeling is nervous, excited and uneasy..where i had no confident on my subject of entrepreneurship. Finally the results release date was came, and very coincidence, our house streamxy service down. Well~~forced to check the result at college library even really unwilling.

my heartbeat getting faster and faster when clink on the next log-in process. Ahh~~ reach the last step, my hand was jam there refuse to cont..But then, yc came..asking me what i waiting for..as i know he sure all pass ler..so, turn my head around, all checked it already. no choose, have to clink the last process...Shout from my heart...haha~~all pass neh..and get the result more than i expected..thanks god.. thanks Buddha, thanks jesus, and thanks Allah(^_^)

Leave this last semester, afterward i need to decide whether want to strive work to earn $$ or abroad to Sheffield Hallam University to get my degree holder for 3 months. Well~ only 3 months, you all must think go lar.. this is the chance oh..why no go??i hope so, but once go need to spend around RM30,000 oh..is it a large figure.? friend, who can give me a advice whether i should go no, does it worth? i was always think what the different of the certificate oversea and local..some more my friend who back been told me the salary they get are same with local, just only get the nice experience at UK. haiz...Go o NoT Go ler?Maybe i get the lottery, i will go without worry..but i didn't buy how win ler?..^_^

眼镜啊~~

终于忍不住了...大大的影响了我...再不换镜片,就不能拥有清晰的视线.唉~~它严重的增加有一倍多..好啦!!是什么造成的勒...罪魁祸首就是电脑咯....自从自己购买一架属于自己的电脑后..我换来就是"近视眼"..而且它一旦缠上我后就不可能要离开了...好咯~~可以拥有一张有学问的脸了咯(猪朋狗友称为斯文败类")..以后有机会的话我一定要进行激光手术把它给解决掉...当然前提是不能有后遗症...哈哈~~
还有哦~~眼镜还我损失的$$也不小勒!!!今天询问之下,我早前带的镜片加镜框大约是RM188,但是呢~~我可是花了近RM300哦~~小小的觉得被砍菜头了...唉~~以后要买完全没有经验的东西,还是回到自己的地方较好...至少还有老友及老妈子撑着...哈哈~~

有没有那么一首歌???

有没有那么一首歌勾起了你我的回忆.


今天开了手提电脑里的SONG PROFILE. 想想是时候整理下那乱得不得了的FILE 了…逐一打开来听听我那曾经爱听的歌…..听着听着…心里不时有种感动, 有种心动再加些无法形容的感觉…


想起了我们大家拥有的回忆…大家朗朗上口一起哼的歌, 唱K时不得不点的歌. 每一首歌都有跟你们的回忆.


一首悲伤的歌可以勾起伤心的回忆…那种心酸又心痛的感觉(悲)
一首轻快的歌可以勾起快乐的回忆…那喜悦又会心一笑的感觉(乐)
一首你常哼的歌, 这时想起了你们…朋友们…
喜欢听歌..喜欢唱歌….喜欢有歌的世界…^_^

一切都來得剛剛好

哎呀，被美君点到了！！(现在才有空玩..)
GAME START~~~~~
1.由某個Blog發起題目
2.在自己的Blog回答題目，並點5個人的名字來回答這些問題
3.另外5個Blog回答完畢後分別點名，以此類推
4.被點名的Blog要在回答問題後注明是被哪個Blog點名的
5.點名者要去被點名者的Blog裏通知他們被點名了
6.在題目的最後加一條自己出的題目


1 最近在看的電視----钱不够用2
2 最近在做的事情----享受假期
3 最近在聽的音樂----不懂勒…没有一个特定
4 最近關心的話題----我的成绩咯!!
5 最近常想的異性----男朋友咯
6 最近常想做的事----发泄
7 最近身體狀況----不是很健康，还像快感冒了~
8 最近理財狀況----平平
9 對朋友最想說的話----大家以后有多忙,都得聚聚哦！
10 對自己最想說的話----忘记过去,希望在人间！
11 記憶中做過的最瘋狂的事情----唉~~别提了！
12 最喜歡吃的食物----KFC, CHEES,
13 最喜歡吃的水果----甜芒果
14 最怕什麼----一个人的时候停电！！！！！！！！！
15 現在最想做的事----赚钱,环游旅行。。。
16 你最遺憾的一件事情----没有狠狠痛打曾经伤害过我的人！
17 短期的目標----我和DEAR全科及格
18 現在最想買的東西----按摩椅
19 覺得自己最大的優點是什麼----独立，友善,待人真诚！
20 近一年最丟人的事情是什麼----提前预祝朋友新婚愉快
21 今年最大的願望是什麼----家人健健康康，长命百岁，和DEAR 的感情越来越大越好！
22 迄今為止最難忘的一件事----不懂勒…
23 如果上天給你一個再來一次的機會，你最想改變哪件事情----那件讨人厌的事情没发生过！
24 現階段生活的支點是什麼----什么来的??
25 “付出是為了獲得”是否是一切交流的原則----肯定是！不付出怎么能获得…我很少相信不劳而获
26 到目前為止談過幾次戀愛----3！
27 失去什麼你會不想活下去----家人和男朋友！
28 你會選擇愛還是被愛----被爱
29 你覺得自己能找到幸福嗎---- 不懂，就算现在幸福也不代表一辈子。。。
30 你認為自己善良嗎----不知,但不愿伤害人！(算吗?)
31 你觉得人活着是为了什么----享受人生.
32 最想去的地方----到你心里..(哈哈)
33 在你心目中，事業重要還是家庭重要----家庭！
34 你對同性戀婚姻有什麼樣的看法----不反对,也不支持
35 什么事能让你感到幸福----有人疼
36 你難過時會想起誰----我的好朋友,好姐妹！
37 在生命的最後一天，你會做什麼---跟家人,愛人在一起
38 你覺得自己是個自私的人嗎----看什么情况,什么人
39 一句刻骨銘心的謊話----忘了..
40 對自己的一切最滿意的是什麼----没有咯，都有待改进！
41 曾經的好朋友滄海桑田，你會覺得怎樣----为他可悲,但不放弃..好朋友难寻.
42 什麼類型的電影最讓你感動----有亲情,爱情的
43 喜歡用什麼方式排解煩惱----还没找到
44 這一秒你在想什麼----快点写完啦，怎么死鬼多！
45 你有幾個真正的朋友----5
46 家人重要還是朋友重要，只能一選----家人啦
47 你印象最深刻的鬼片是哪一部？哪個情景？----哇~~现在夜深,不敢想.
48 你相信有靈魂這種媒介存在麼？----不懂
49 如果要在身體上紋一個身,你最希望的部位是哪裏----右前方腹部
50 你最自戀的表現是什麼----自拍
51 如何稱呼自己的伴侶才夠肉麻？----Dearrr~~~
52 你希望世界返璞歸真還是越來越先進----先進啦
53 你認為自己是什麼樣的人呢？----底调的人(因高调不起!!)
54 不想死也不想好好活著的時候該以什麼樣的方式面對？----睡覺
55 如果用動物來形容自己你最接近什麼動物?----海豚
56 做了這麼多題目之後，有什麼想法？----无聊的想法
57 用三個詞來形容一下自己目前的生活----压力，烦，累
58 支撐你對自己戀人無限包容的支點是什麼----跟他在一起不会闷到^_^
59 如果明確告訴你死了能到更美好的世界，你會不會馬上去死----不會啦~ 傻咩…
60 在你心目中，朋友，究竟是什麼？----在家靠父母，出外靠朋友 ..重要
61 一個陌生人莫名其妙給你一個並不重的耳光之後，再對你微笑，你會有什麼反應？----骂粗话 ,骂回去
62 你最讨厌什么样的人？---虚假,花心的人！
63 你有過劈腿的經歷嗎（包括精神）----有
64 目前為止，生命中重要的幾個人？----外公,婆;家人和爱我的人
66 最近聽到的最八卦的事情是什麼？----不懂！
67 如果條件允許，會養什麼寵物？----狗
68 等待一個愛的人, 你會為自己設一個時限嗎？--当然会.女人的时间有限
69 最近看了什么书啊？----江子洋!(应该拼错了)
70 最令你无法忍受的事情----说话粗声粗气的人
71 你有试过在大庭广众放无声屁吗？然后装傻。 要说真的哦！----有…
72 你喜歡什麼類型的異性?----有脑又成功的商业人士！当然要谦虚
73 想擁有怎樣的一間房子?----大房子,酱就有很大的空间了..哈
74 想要為自己的明天做些什麼?----什么都好，开心就好
75 如果有机会，你会不会来趟寻找自我之旅？原因？----会,酱才会成长嘛
76 以后希望从事什么事业？----事业型女性
77 朋友在大庭广众做丢脸的事,你会怎么对他?----看情况
79 最想死的方法？----不血腥的死，美美的睡死吧！
80 在临死前的那一刻,最依依不舍的事?----家人,爱人！
81 如果时间倒流,你想做的第一件事是什么?----不认识那个曾经伤害我很深又害我伤害他的人..
82 如果你发现你现在的男朋友/女朋友劈腿,你会原谅她吗？---哭了再说！
83 相信一见钟情吗？----信
84 在你心中，我算是你的什么人？---很久没见的朋友！
85 请列出一个你认为我最大的优点和最坏的缺点。----優點-->待人真诚,可爱！ 缺點-->没有！
86 如果这一题不用你绞尽脑子回答，你会不会感激我？----會
87 对你而言，你觉得时间真的会冲淡一切吗？----要时间加人和..
88 要是大便大到一半，没有卫生纸，你会怎么办？----我不会让这发生！89 现在的你开心和幸福吗?^^----还好咯！
90 喜欢的人喜欢你吗？----哈哈!!很久没问了..
91 会对喜欢的人做什么事??----陪着他！
92 你会害怕死亡么？----會
93 在什么情况下会跟不喜欢的人在一起?----对爱情绝望,只想人爱时！
94 如果你喜欢的人有男/女朋友,你会怎么做?----忘了他
95 你是夜貓子嗎?----是!!
96 你现在最想揍的人是谁？----曾经伤害过我的人！！!
97 做了水晶指甲该怎么样挖鼻孔?----没做过！
98 當你生病時會想起誰??----妈妈,爱人
99 你觉得生活状况怎样？----还不满足！！
100 想几岁结婚？28 ( 終於輪到我出題了!!!哈哈)
101 你觉得你爱的人对你不如以前,你会选择离开吗??
那接下來點到名的請給個面子做完它哦!!讓遊戲傳下去....

1.佳美 2.丽雯 3.丽诗 4.丽莲 5. SUH YIEN(一定要玩哦）

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paisei paisei, 真的paisei哦!!!我的"待续"让大家久等了..

来吧....待续中....

(能看到它在那儿吗???大家仔细的瞧)

它们并不可怕~~只不过那一刹那就被吓了一下...听说它们活了很多年..还是被保护的哦...

我跟了它们很久...不离不弃哦...感动NEH...

看看海边的风景吧...

P/S:或许是捆了,或许是MOOD已不在了...所一就到着吧...真不好意思哦..

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嘿~~我要你陪着我,看着那海龟水中游,慢慢的趴在沙滩上数着浪花一朵朵.哟~~从热浪岛回来也满久了..趁在家快快加上我的部落格吧...^_^

星期四晚上的巴士到达丁加奴....既然是凌晨五点多...呵~~没法,被卖票的骗去...所以唯有等...等...等.... :-P

哟~~到码头咯~~~正式开始我们的旅程了..

我和樟的来回船票....没它就上不了船咯....

哇~~加快速度...前往岛屿咯.... PS :樟说相机掉下海,我定闲掉..但我的绳可是套稳的哦...还是怕怕的...风太强了...但没事~~安全地.....

终于到了,好一个船之行....是远的咯 来~~拍张照后,休息下先....

*出海咯~~~看看我们的"苦力"辛苦咯.....ARIGATOU~~哈哈!!!

*觉得还满好笑的....哈哈~~是不?? 说真的是晒的咯~~
*后面的人还带游泳圈勒~~~^_^

爱拍照的我们~~小小机会也不放过..最后...丽莲玩到昏船.....

看看看~~~好多鱼呢~~

待续~~~~